AnuGoli

Are parents allowed to come stay with us forever? Maid allowed? Full/part time Electricity restrictions Water allowance - source of water Luxurious space , 4bhk allowed? List of rules and regulations Volunteering commitments, do both of us have to work? Visitors, guests, family stay overs. Any restrictions? Vacation or leaves per year? Kitchen rules? Can we earn, libtech? Rent? Income through volunteering?

Benefits of independent I become like people I am surrounded with. I want to be surrounded by positive people. Fun, music, freedom Food - as per our taste and time Compromises in joint Feeding biscuits Constant questioning/taunting on medicines Tv, loud conversations, Forcing walker

INSIDE THE HOME: Big spacious kitchen Storage Sun, east west facing, Balcony for sun basking Ac Geyser Water storage Clothes drying space FACILITIES: Electricity Water SURROUNDINGS: Garden space in vicinity Greenery trees Access to good quality food Access to good quality milk.

May be the reason why universe has designed children is so that we can view our parents as children. They are children in some sense. I shower so much love on kabir and have so much of patience for him. But when it comes to my mom, I am so restless!! One of my practise could be to have the same amount of patience with my mom, as I have for kabir. When kabir throws around his toys and creates a mess, I am ok lifting them up and putting them I the basket. But when mummy creates a mess in the kitchen, I feel like giving her a lot lecture. Can I look at mummy with the same amount of innocence as I do for kabir? May be this is my new practise.

Goli and i began talking ambling where next? What initiated that conversation was the discomfort we've begun to feel at both his brother's place and at my parents' place. What is this discomfort? Sometimes it's padmini aunty, sometimes Vikram Limsay, sometimes our moms. Wherever we go, this sort of discomfort may follow us. Isn't it better to deal with parents, instead of dealing with padmini aunty? Where does this wisdom go when I'm just about to pounce on them?!

Deven bhai shared that its important to share the truth, but before that, it's important to cultivate maitri for the person.